AussieRSX
Sounds like you need to bed-in your clutch properly!!
I've had a HKS super Twin paddle clutch and flywheel fitted to my car and had terrible engagement problems when changing down to 3rd or 2nd gear!, this was soon cured when I was told that I had not properly bed-in my clutch.
To do this I had to do standing starts, by revving the car to 5000rpm and then dump the clutch and WWwHhEEeeeeeeeee.
You will have to do this several times, waiting until the clutch is cooled down between each standind starts ( although I did mine once each day ) until the clutch gradually became smoother to engage. You will be able to notice the difference after a couple of starts and be able judge after a while, that the clutch is suitabily bedded-in!


I hope this is of help to you, because I feel much happier with my clutch now, and my wife doesn't nag about it any more!
Tony